id verification (blue tick)
optional government id verification adds a visible badge, so genuine members stand out.
trust and safety
your safety is our first job
we pair smart technology with real human moderators to protect you before harm reaches you, not after. we screen content as it is uploaded, watch for trouble in real time, and put the controls in your hands.
identity and verification
know who is real
confirm who you are talking to, without anyone exposing personal documents.
video verification
a live check with a moderator confirms identity, without sharing sensitive documents.
age assurance
age checks keep this a space for mature adults only, with extra checks where needed.
privacy and control
you decide what to share
what you share, who sees it and when, is always your choice.
safe usernames
your real name and email are never shown publicly.
location privacy
only your nearest town or city is shown, never your exact address.
instant blocking
block anyone immediately so they can no longer see you or get in touch.
easy reporting
report a member or content in a couple of taps, from anywhere on the platform.
community trust
a community that holds itself to account
user rating system
every member has a reputation score built from behaviour and feedback.
one-click feedback
upvote or downvote an interaction instantly with a single click.
off-platform contact alerts
we flag attempts to move you to outside apps, where scammers prefer to operate.
active protection
we step in before harm reaches you
ai and human moderators work together, around the clock, screening content as it goes up rather than reacting later.
behaviour monitoring
technology spots unusual or suspicious activity patterns automatically.
proactive moderation
images, video and text are screened on upload by ai and human review.
swift takedowns
fast action to remove unauthorised or harmful content when it is reported.
explicit image protection
potentially sensitive images are blurred with a warning before you choose to view.
support and standards
here when you need us, accountable to best practice
24/7 human support
a real team you can reach any time by chat, phone or message.
safe dating guidance
helpful tips and reminders are built right into the platform.
secure infrastructure
hosted on pci-compliant cloud infrastructure with full ssl encryption.
industry standards
aligned with best practice through our work with the online dating and discovery association.
related reading
helpful guides from our articles
questions or concerns?
our team is here, around the clock
date with confidence, knowing real people have your back at every step.