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classic

everything you need to start exploring and making your first connections.

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no card needed. join in about two minutes.

  • build a full profile and browse every member
  • daily match suggestions chosen for you
  • send a few messages a day, and reply to vip members
  • free id verification and your verified badge
  • earn badges as you stay active
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vip plus

our top tier, built to make you stand out and be seen first.

£3.99 / week

or £7.99 a month. cancel anytime.

  • everything in vip
  • exclusive pool of premium matches
  • top of the match stack, seen first
  • boosted profile visibility in your area
  • priority placement for your messages and likes
  • super match add-on to make a bold first move
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questions, answered

is it free to join?

yes. classic membership is free forever. build a full profile, browse members, get daily matches and send a few messages a day at no cost. free id verification is included for everyone.

what is the difference between vip and vip+?

vip unlocks unlimited messaging, advanced search filters and tools to see who likes you. vip+ adds everything in vip plus exclusive matches, boosted visibility and top placement, so you are seen first.

can i cancel at any time?

yes. you can cancel whenever you like, and billing is always discreet and secure.

which currencies can i pay in?

prices here are shown in gbp and usd. more currencies, along with quarterly and annual options, are available at checkout.

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